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How Family Systems Theory and Postmodern Ideas
Can Influence the Way We Perceive and Analyze Dreams
by G. Scott Sparrow, Ed.D.
University of Texas-Pan American
This
is a draft of a paper that I will be preparing for publication, and
thus far lacks references. I am in interested in receiving any feedback
from my peers that they may wish to provide, as well as knowing of any
publications or ongoing research that relates to this material and that
may assist me in a review of the literature. I can be reached by email
at gssparrow@utpa.edu. Thank you!
Systems oriented family therapy is based on the
premise that the individual is embedded in various nested systems,
including the family and the community. In order to effect constructive
change, a family therapist has to understand the relationship dynamics
among the family members that create and perpetuate individual
distress. Then, armed with this understanding, the therapist can
formulate interventions that are designed to alter the system's
dynamics, rather than merely addressing the complaints of its members.
While the schools of systems-oriented family therapy
share the view that working with the system is the best way to
facilitate change in its members, they differ when it comes to
interventional approaches. Members of Bateson's Palo Alto group–known
as the cyberneticists–believed that the therapist had to defeat or
circumvent the family's resistance to change, and that the family's
insight or collaboration in the process was wholly unnecessary.
Virginia Satir took a completely different tack, teaching the family
how to communicate with each other, and relating to them on a deep
emotional level as a way to catalyze change. Salvador Minuchin combined
the aggressive style of the Palo Alto group and the engaging style of
Satir into a hands-on, collaborative approach that inspired the
formation of the most popular school of family therapy to date.
The postmodern therapies of Solution-Focused Therapy and Narrative Therapy were
developed more recently by family therapists who reacted to the
intrusive style of the prevailing schools, and were influenced by the
social constructionism. Believing that a person's reality is a unique
product of beliefs, experiences, gender, relationships and cultural
influences, a postmodern therapist endeavors to leave his or her
assumptions at the door and enter into a client's reality in order to
facilitate change.
Solution-Focused therapists pursue this ideal by
exploring the client's life for exceptional moments, during which the
problem did not seem to exist. They link these moments to the client's
own actions, and treat these actions, however tangentially related to
the problem, as competencies that can be built upon as solutions. The
therapist imposes nothing except a view of the client's own
unacknowledged competencies, and the support to enact them.
Narrative therapists emulate the ideal of
nonintrusive collaboration by entering into a dialogue in which the
client's language-based assessment of the problem is explored. The
therapist frames the problem as a socially constructed label, and sets
about helping the client to externalize the problem and emancipate
himself or herself from its oppressive effect. Similar to
Solution-Focused therapists, Narrative therapists cite these
exceptional experiences as evidence of the client's ability to claim
power over the problem.
Recently, the concepts and tools of this
evolving tradition have been employed in working with the
intrapersonal, subjective world, as well. Richard Schwartz's Internal
Family Systems is an example of how principles of family organization
and structure have been effectively applied to intrapsychic realities.
His system shows the influence of Gestalt therapy, Jungian psychology,
and Psychosynthesis, but supplements those traditions with
interventions derived principally from Structural Family Therapy. In
essence, Schwartz treats the inner family of subpersonalities and
complexes much in the way that a family therapist would approach an
external family. In particular, IFS uses joining, collaboration, and
enactment in order to modify internal hierarchies and boundaries. The
overall objective is to foster the expression and authority of an
integrated self.
In a similar vein, I have found that the concepts
that govern family systems and their postmodern offshoots can be
applied to dream analysis in order to produce a dynamic, process
oriented, and competency-based approach to therapeutic dream work.
Specifically, I'd like to show you how a dream work method that I have
developed and used over the last 25 years–that is, the Five Star
Method–reflects many of the principles currently espoused by
systems-oriented family therapy and postmodern therapy.
The assumptions about the dream experience
upon which the Five Star Method is based, and which allow for the
incorporation of systems and postmodern concepts and methods, are as
follows:
1) What we call "a dream" is not a given–that
is,created from the outset–but the product of a dynamic interaction
between dreamer and the dream imagery.
2) The dreamer and the dream imagery are somewhat distinct aspects of the dream.
3) Whether the dreamer is aware of it or not, he or
she is potentially free to respond to the dream content in a variety of
ways, and in virtually every dream, there is some evidence of the
dreamer's being aware, and responding out of choice.
4) The dreamer's responses are in a circular causal,
or reciprocal relationship with the imagery, such that a change in one
will usually be mirrored by a change in the other.
5) The dream process is purposeful and integrative.
It can evolve toward a synthesis of dreamer and dream content, or
regress toward a widening split between dreamer and the content,
depending largely on the dreamer's responses to the dream content.
Now, since our time is limited, let's look at how
some of the concepts and interventions of family therapy and its
postmodern offshoots have been incorporated into the FSM.
Joining and Collaboration
A central tenet of contemporary family and
postmodern therapy is the idea that we can only effect change by
appreciating the unique values, beliefs and cultures of our clients.
Taking time to inquire into each person's values and experiences, and
relating to each individual on a personal, feeling level establishes a
sense of trust and rapport, which enhances the family's acceptance of
the therapist's subsequent interventions. Since each family is unique,
the therapist's expertise is limited to his or her ability to relate to
the family, and to facilitate change in the context of it own distinct
values and goals.
Dream Work Parallels. The first step of the FSM is
to share the dream in the first-person, present tense (as Perls
recommended), and then for the dream worker(s) and dreamer to share
their respective feelings that were aroused during the dream sharing
(as Ullman recommends). In
addition to reawakening the affective intensity of the original dream
and converting it into a present, living experience, this process also
establishes a shared communal space in which everyone's emotional
reactions to the dream are taken into account. The dream worker(s) come
to know the dreamer through their vicarious participation in the dream
sharing. The dreamer, in turn, gets to know the dream worker(s) through
their empathic responses to the dream. Through this mutual exchange,
rapport and trust are established, laying the groundwork for the
subsequent analysis.
Structural Assessments
Before a systems oriented family therapist
intervenes in the family, he or she carefully observes the family's
"spontaneous sequences of behaviors." These ordinary exchanges between
family members allow the therapist to perceive and map out the family's
relationship structure. While the family may be focused on resolving
specific presenting problems, such as Johnny's "disrespectfulness" or
his "lack of motivation at school," the therapist focuses instead on
how the members are relating rather than what they are complaining
about. This focus on process, or structure, rather than the content of
the family's presenting problem, allows the therapist to intervene at
the level where the problem is sustained, without being caught up in
the family's preoccupation with specific details or problem-saturated
labels.
Dream Work Parallels. In the FSM, the second step
involves formulating the dream's theme or action statement. Those of
you who have worked with the dream theme method that Mark Thurston and
I wrote about in late 70s know that it is a brief summation of the
dream's action that avoids all mention of specific names and labels. A
well-formulated dream theme will read something like, "Someone is
trying to get away from something, and no matter what he tries, he
doesn't succeed until he gets help from someone else." Similar to a
family's structural map, the theme allows the dreamer and dream
worker(s) to perceive the essential dream process without being
distracted by the specificity and drama of the dream content.
Circular Causality
Perhaps the most important contribution of Gregory
Bateson's Palo Alto group was the concept of circular causality–also
referred to as reciprocity, or cybernetics. Whereas individuals will
typically blame each other for starting a problem, the Bateson group
viewed problems as reciprocal dynamics in which both parties
participate. Because synchronous feedback sustains the relationship
dynamic, neither party can be considered the cause of the problem once
it is up and running. Family therapists often teach their clients to
see their problems as a product of circular causality, in order to
encourage them to avoid "the blame game," and to take responsibility
for their respective contributions to the problem.
The Palo Alto group also believed that dysfunctional
relationship patterns are a result of a failure to accommodate a need
for change in the family rules. Instead of interpreting developmental
and environmental stressors as occasions to revise the family rules,
families will often assert the old rules, resulting in an escalation of
tension between those who espouse the old rules and those who challenge
them.
Dream Work Parallels. In the FSM, the third step is
the heart of the method. It involves highlighting and troubleshooting
the dreamer's responses to the dream. While the dreamer may feel that
he or she had no choice and reacted in the only way imaginable, the
dream worker(s) encourage the dreamer to see the ways that the
dreamer's responses may have impacted the subsequent unfoldment of the
dream. The concept of circular causality, and of "cocreating" the dream
is introduced in this step of the process. The dream content, by
definition, is considered an "intrusive novelty" (Ullman) that
ultimately offers the dreamer an expanded sense of self through,
essentially, a revision of the ego's "rules." The dreamer's responses
are evaluated on the basis of whether they reflect an habitual style,
or represent something new. Just as family distress is treated as a
failure to revise the family rules in order to accommodate change, the
dreamer's distress is seen as a function of his or her attachment to
familiar ways of responding. As Puryear once said, "There are no bad
dreams, only unfortunate dreamer responses."
Process Questions
Murray Bowen, founder of Family Systems Therapy,
conducted conjoint therapy from the standpoint of a dispassionate
witness who would ask each member "process questions" designed to
increase an awareness of one's role in a problematic dynamic. Bowenian
therapists encourage each member to avoid blaming the other party, and
to reflect on what he or she has done to contribute to the problem, and
what might be done to alleviate it. Questions such as, "What tells you
that he isn't aware of your feelings?"or "What else could you do when
she insists on talking to you?" are predicated on the principle of
circular causality, and work powerfully to create an awareness of one's
part in the problem and one's power to bring about change in the
relationship.
Dream Work Parallels. This line of inquiry is, once
again, related to the third step of the FSM, which focuses on the
dreamer's responses. Similar to Bowenian therapists, the dream
worker(s) will ask the dreamer to reflect on what he or she was
thinking, feeling and perceiving as the dream unfolded, and how those
qualities translated into convictions about other characters and
situations in the dream. If the dreamer simply assumed something, the
dream worker(s) will ask "what if" questions such as, "What do you
think he would have said if you'd asked him?" or "What do you think
would have happened if you'd stood your ground?" This mode of inquiry
gently challenges a one-dimensional view (Rossi) and supports the
dreamer's acceptance of responsibility and agency.
Enactment and Structural Interventions
Structural Family therapists encourage family
members to address each other directly, in order to provoke the
problematic dynamic between them. While this may seem
counterproductive, the SFT therapist uses the real-time interaction as
a basis for making structural changes, such as insisting on direct
communication, having the parties prevent interruptions from
triangulated members. The therapist works to opens boundaries that have
been too rigid, and establish stronger boundaries that have been too
open
Dream Work Parallels. Step Four of the FSM involves
working with the imagery, not so much to draw parallels with specific
waking state referents, but to come to an understanding of the generic
issues represented by the imagery, and how the relationship with this
issue can become more fulfilling if the dreamer adopts a different
stance in relationship to it.
In this step, the familiar Gestalt technique of
dialoguing with the imagery is an important way to explore the
differences between dreamer and dream characters. Asking the dreamer to
address the characters and engage in playing their roles, as well,
serves the goals of this important step in the dream work. Similar to
family therapy, the dream worker(s) oversees the enactment, and
encourage directness, feeling statements, and I-messages in order to
restructure the relationship by opening the boundary between the
dreamer and the dream characters. Afterward, the changes in the dream
imagery are noted and credited to the dreamer's willingness to engage
them directly.
Equifinality, Finding Exceptional Moments, Reframing, and Shaping Competency
These concepts are closely related. Equifinality is
a principle that is central to all schools of systemic family
therapy. It means that any constructive change, however small, will
affect the whole system. To put it in familiar terms, the family
therapist thinks globally, but acts locally with the conviction that
any positive change will have an overall positive effect on the system
and all of its members.
In Solution-Focused Therapy, therapists uphold this concept by looking
for exceptional moments when the problem did not occur, and tying the
client's activities at these times to the suspension of the problem.
For example, the therapist might ask a couple who is ongoing conflict
if the problem has ever subsided. If the couple reports that they
stopped arguing during a time then they were going to the movies a lot,
then the therapist would cite their moviegoing as a solution to
their problem, and one within their own power to enact. The principle
here is that people are so focused on their problems that they do not
realize that they have already enacted solutions. When the therapist
discovers these exceptional moments, he or she supports and shapes the
competency that the client has already evidenced. In many cases, the
therapist will also reframe the behavior so that the client can more
easily perceive it as a competency. The therapist might reframe movie
going, which on the surface may seem like a rather trivial activity as
"involving themselves in the arts," or "showing an interest in the
lives of others," so as to render it a more serious endeavor and offer
subtle suggestions as to how this inclination might be broadened into
other activities.
Dream Work Parallels. In the FSM, there is an
emphasis on locating the moments where the dreamer deviated, if only
slightly, from a chronic or habitual style of responding, or was
particularly creative or resourceful. As we know, dreamers are often
preoccupied by a sense of failure or victimization, especially in
conflict-ridden dreams. Consequently, they may overlook instances of
their own incipient competency.
Any sign of strength can be supported, and built
upon. For instance, a man had a dream of floating above a beautiful
laughing woman, who was trying to grab his heels and bring him down to
earth. Anxiously, he was able to flap his arms in order to stay just
beyond her reach. It is easy to denigrate the dreamer's response, and
to concentrate on the avoidance of contact with the woman as a
problematic issue. While probably true, this imposition is anathema to
the systems-oriented and postmodern therapies, which are focused on
finding competencies to support. In order to support the dreamer in
making the changes he needs to make, it is far better to point out just
how effective he is in remaining aloof from the woman. For example,
reframing his behavior as "not giving in too easily" might further
support a positive view of an actual strength that he needs in order to
preserve his integrity under the real pressures of an intimate
relationship.
The final step in the FSM involves the application
of the dream work. Specifically, dreamers are encouraged to find a
place in their lives, including their future dreams, where they can
practice, or imagine practicing the responses that would have made a
constructive difference in the dream. There is no effort to arrive an
an interpretation, or answer questions
such as "What does my dream mean?" or "What is it telling me?"
Addressing such questions would represent a regression into treating
the dream as an oracle and the dreamer as a passive audience. In the
words of the late clairvoyant Edgar Cayce, the interpretation of the
dream is its application. And the application has to do with making
choices to respond in ways that would have made a constructive
difference in their dreams. The dream worker(s) supports the principle
of equifinality by encouraging dreamers to apply themselves concretely
in one area–but to look for positive effects in all areas of life,
including their future dreams, as a consequence of their willingness to
respond in new ways to an ongoing life challenge.
Summary
I have cited only a few of the central tenets and
tactics of systems-oriented family therapy and its postmodern
offspring, and explained how these approaches have influenced a
five-step systematic approach to dreamwork called the Five Star
Method. I invite you to read my paper on the Five Star Method, in which I describe the method itself in more
detail.
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